No matter what he says, a Jamaican man expects to get a Christmas gift.

This is a sure fire way to reach his heart. Yep they have those too.

Jamaican men love

Uptown girls

Downtown girls

Smart girls

Skinny girls

Plus size  girls

Town girls

Country girls

Mawga girls

Black girls

Rasta queens

Indian girls

Chinese girls

And every other race

Brownings

Girls in long skirt

Girls in short skirt

Foreign girls

Local girls

Tall girls

Shorties

Smart girls

UWI girls

Utech girls

And every odda girlsl

As long as dem nice girls

Roots drinks – to give them energy

Roots foods – keep them healthy

Roots women – to help them stay grounded on reality

Roots music – to keep them feeling irie

and everything else bigga

Bigga yard

Bigga car

Bigga culture

And the ultimate Xmas is one that is spent in Jamaica with food, friends and family

Knowing this, never be a surprised if you meet a Jamaican man who wants to be home for Xmas.

Be weary of the  Jamaican man who has no desire to spend Xmas eating or drinking sorrel, or seeing his friends  or visiting his family.

Respect is given and expected, otherwise there is no basis for any relationship -  personal,

financial or emotional.

Sometimes a Jamaican man will buss a laugh for seemingly strange reasons. Like on seeing his friends he might laugh out of sheer joy.

The key to change is that it must be geniune as no one likes a hypocrite. Change must come from within and not without.

Outside factors can cause a person to change, but the change should be from the heart.

So it is not that a Jamaican man cannot change. He will change when he is ready. But that could be now, tomorrow or in the next life.

The question then becomes – Can you love him for who he is today? Or is your mission to change him ?

Let him be who he wants to be.

And you too will discover who you are.

Trying to change him is almost futile.

But not only their children

But all children

For they believe children are a blessing

And the future belongs to them